Wilder is ten months old today on the 10th, his golden month birthday! It’s so crazy seeing an almost full pizza box and how big he’s gotten since we started doing this. This was probably the hardest month to photograph because he would not stay still. He rolled onto the pizza a few times and we were probably only able to get 10 shots total. The next two months should be very interesting and difficult…

With only two months to go I know I need to start planning his first birthday party. Naturally it’s going to be a pizza party theme. I think kid’s birthdays are the most fun to plan and am excited to get started on his.

Right now Wilder is teething like crazy, his third tooth just broke through on the top and there’s at least 3 more ready to come in any second.

He’s over 20 pounds now and in 9 month or 12 month sizes. Here are a few things we’ve gotten for him recently…

Love a henley onesie and he needed some red for Valentine’s day.

The cutest black skinny jeans that actually have a slim fit.

A new pair of sunglasses for spring.

More henley tops, love these colors.

Love this brand and these star print pants are so cute.

Found these cute rompers in a two pack at Target.

One of my favorite pairs of zip up pajamas.

And this pair…

He wears this gray sweatshirt a few times a week.

Another winter wardrobe staple is this jacket

A great set of henley onesies (can you tell I love henleys?)

And these joggers are so soft, also in a set.

Love these tie dye joggers… and they have a matching bodysuit and sweatshirt.

Can’t let this end without sharing my favorite baby shoes. Currently loving this pair, this pair and this pair.

Hope you have a great week – thank you so much for reading and following!

Hope your weekend was as relaxing and overindulgent as mine. Yesterday Jeff made me and Crosby Belgian waffles with coconuts and chocolate chips and a banana syrup, if that tells you anything. It’s honestly a miracle my pants will button. For Cyber Monday I want to share deals on some of my favorite items, hint my Uppababy stroller is on sale!

Did that get your attention? You can get $100 in rewards when you buy this stroller, or anything $300 or over on right now at Buy Buy Baby. These strollers almost never go on sale so it’s a great time to buy one… or another big ticket baby item on your list.

I have this Babyletto Crib (currently using it as a toddler bed) for Crosby and this one for Wilder.

Other amazing sales & deals

Abercrombie & Fitch has everything 50% off! They have some really cozy looking coats and I’m loving this puff-sleeve sweatshirt.

Aerie has all sweatshirts and leggings 50% off. I have this sweatshirt and couldn’t love it more. It’s a slightly oversized fit and so comfy.

Old Navy is also 50% off everything. One of my favorite places to shop for babies and toddlers.

GAP is also 50% off everything. Another one of my go-to’s for the kids.

Freshly Picked is still 30% off everything and 50% off if you sign up for their membership program (first month is free and you can cancel at any time) with code FPxAshnfashn

Elemis makes some of my absolute favorite skincare items like this cleansing balm, marine cream and oil. Everything is 30% off with code CYBER19

Crate & Barrel is 20-30% off site wide. My favorite wine glasses, soup and sandwich plates and the waffle maker I mentioned are all from Crate & Barrel.

Serena & Lily has 25% off everything. One of my favorite things in our living room is this rattan hanging chair.

Minted has a great sale going on right now. I’ll definitely be taking advantage of it today and ordering our holiday cards.

Tula is another skincare favorite of mine. I live for this eye balm, cleanser and primer. This kit has all three + more and is such an amazing deal!

One of the questions I’ve been asked the most lately is where I find Wilder’s clothes. The answer is literally everywhere! I did this post a few months ago about my favorite places to buy clothes for baby boys, but thought I should update it with more favs.

Here’s just one of the DM’s I’ve gotten about this… so I know it’s an on-going problem!

Let’s be real, when you go into a baby clothes section at least 70% is devoted to baby girls. The boy stuff always seems like it was an after thought and is a lot harder to find cute pieces. Luckily I love a challenge so this has become a fun game for me.

Places I always look for basics:

Target – Cat & Jack brand is my favorite. They usually cute onesies and pants/shorts.

Old Navy – You kind of have to weed through all the stuff that’s cheesy/cutesie but I’ve found some cute things. Like the kiwi romper pictured above.

H&M – Online is much better than in store… however orders take forever to get to you. 100% worth the wait.

Cotton On Kids – The opposite of H&M. I usually have better luck in store, but if you don’t live near one online is fine.

Unique finds: 

Rags to Raches – I was first introduced to them at an event when Crosby was a baby. They gifted me a couple gender neutral rompers that Wilder is also wearing. Really cute stuff.

Monica & Andy – Really cute prints and everything is so soft.

Coco Moon Hawaii – Tropical/Hawaii inspired prints

Soverign Code – Obsessed with everything they do. Found at Bloomingdales.

Kate Quinn – Cute prints and even have some matching for brothers and sisters. Love that.

Tea Collection – Great quality and cute prints.

Tucker & Tate – Can be hit or miss but I’m loving their rompers right now.

Please share your favorite places to find baby boy clothes – we’re all in this together!

my dress: Love Shack Fancy (old // similar)

Wilder’s outfit: Gymboree (RIP // similar)

Crosby’s dress: Burberry (similar)

I’m pretty picky when it comes to baby clothing. I typically gravitate towards things that are cute but also look like an adult might wear them. Now that I’m a boy mom I feel like I can really talk about the struggle to find cute (not cheesy) baby boy clothes. With baby girls it’s a lot easier… you can pop in to just about any store and find cute things but for some reason it’s a lot easier to make boy clothes tacky and cheesy. I wanted to share my favorite places and brands for baby boy clothes.

H&M

Cotton On Kids

Monica + Andy

Splendid

Nununu

Miles Baby

Zara

Huxbaby

Miniclasix

Kate Quinn

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If you’ve been following me since I had Crosby it’s probably obvious that Freshly Picked moccasins are my favorite shoes for her. She’s been wearing them since she could fit into their newborn sized moccs and hasn’t stopped. They were the only shoes that would actually stay on her feet when she was a baby… even socks would fall off! Now that’s she’s bigger, she can even fit into their sneakers, sandals and mini sole moccs. We love them all!

Freshly Picked is doing a HUGE half-yearly sale with prices up to 50% off. It just launched today and runs through the 27th. You can save even more if you join their membership program called The Fringe. I have a code for you to get the first month free – FPxashnfashn

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And just like that it’s November. Don’t blink or it will be 2019. Over the weekend I posted an IG story wearing this outfit and got lots of questions about my chunky cardigan. It’s the Free People Sunday Morning cardigan and I purchased during the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale. Sadly, it’s mostly sold out in this light grey color but it’s fully stocked in black here and a few other colors here. I actually spotted this cardi last year in a pretty blush shade, but I didn’t get it before it sold out so I made sure to snap it up when it came back for the sale.

sunglasses, tank c/o, cardigan (more colors here), jeans, shoes, similar bag

on Crosby: jumpsuit, shoes c/o

An outfit like this is perfect for fall in Southern California. It’s chilly in the mornings and evenings and warm in the afternoon. Layers are 100% necessary. I love this tank for layering. It’s from one of my favorite brands and it’s super comfortable for lounging around the house or running around town.

Do you see my little sidekick with her fingers in her mouth? Poor girl is hardcore teething and sometimes that’s the only thing that soothes her. We tried taking these pictures without her but she just wasn’t having it and had to jump in for a few.

She looked super cute in this jumpsuit I found on Amazon. I’ve found so many cute pieces for here there. A lot of times Prime isn’t available so they take a few weeks to come, but they’re worth it! One tip is to always size up because a lot of things run small.

sunglasses, tank c/o, cardigan (more colors here), jeans, shoes, similar bag

on Crosby: jumpsuit, shoes c/o

Hope you had a great Halloween!! Thanks for reading and following!